Suddenly, you will feel an explosion of awesomeness in your stomach and vagina! Obviously, we don't need to convince how great an orgasm is, but there are actually benefits beyond just pleasure. Each time try to find a different position, and try to get pleasure in that position, it helps. I find that every other day works for me. You can guide him by placing your fingers over his fingers or hand, and pressing the spots you like in the motion and frequency that makes you go wild. It is possible to learn to be orgasmic.